How to Use Lip Scrub: Your Complete Guide to Softer, Smoother Lips
Two Ways to Exfoliate (And Why One Is Way Less Messy)
Learning how to use lip scrub properly starts with understanding that not all scrubs work the same way. There are actually two different methods for exfoliating your lips, and they work pretty differently from each other. Traditional lip scrubs require rinsing and can be messy, while exfoliating lip balms work differently—you massage them in until absorbed, no rinsing needed. Once you understand both methods, you can pick what works best for your routine.

Quick Takeaway
- Traditional scrubs need to be rinsed off after 30 seconds of gentle massaging
- Exfoliating lip balms work differently—massage in until absorbed, no rinsing required
- Both methods: use gentle pressure and limit to 1-2 times per week maximum
- Never exfoliate broken or cracked lips with either method
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What Lip Exfoliation Actually Does
Dead skin builds up on your lips over time, creating that rough, flaky texture that makes lipstick look patchy and balm sit on top instead of sinking in. Exfoliation physically removes those dead bits, leaving smoother lips that absorb moisture better.
Both traditional scrubs and exfoliating balms work by using gentle abrasives (usually sugar crystals) to buff away dead skin. The difference is in how you use them and what happens to the product afterward. Dermatological research shows that gentle exfoliation improves lip texture by removing dead cells and allowing better product absorption.
How Often Should You Exfoliate?
Regardless of which method you choose, once per week is enough for most people. That's it. One gentle session weekly keeps flakes under control without irritating your skin. In harsh winter weather, you might bump it to twice weekly if your lips are constantly flaking, but that's the maximum.
Your lips have thin, delicate skin with no oil glands to protect them. Over-exfoliating damages your lip barrier, leading to chronic peeling and irritation. Research on lip care suggests that the lips' protective barrier is easily compromised by frequent exfoliation.
Critical warning for both methods: never exfoliate broken or cracked lips. If your lips have open cracks, bleeding, or feel painful, skip exfoliation completely. Focus on healing first with a protective balm, then resume gentle exfoliation once your lips are intact.

Method 1: Traditional Lip Scrubs (Rinse-Off Style)
Traditional lip scrubs usually come in small jars or pots and contain sugar or salt suspended in oils, honey, or petroleum jelly. They're effective but require a bit more cleanup.
How to use traditional scrubs:
Wet your lips first. Lightly dampen them with water (at the sink or with a damp washcloth). This softens skin and prevents the scrub from dragging.
Apply a small amount. Scoop out a pea-sized dollop and massage it on your lips using gentle circular motions with your fingertip.
Be gentle for 30 seconds. You're loosening dead flakes, not sanding your lips. Dermatology guidelines emphasize that aggressive scrubbing strips protective layers. If you feel pain or see redness, you're being too rough.
Rinse thoroughly. This is where traditional scrubs differ from exfoliating balms. Wash off all scrub particles with lukewarm water or use a soft washcloth. Make sure no grit remains, especially in the corners of your lips.
Apply balm immediately. After rinsing and patting dry, apply a generous layer of moisturizing balm right away. You've exposed newer skin that needs hydration, so skipping this step leaves your lips drier than before you started.

Method 2: Exfoliating Lip Balms (Mess-Free Style)
This is where things get easier. Exfoliating lip balms like ours combine the scrub and moisturizer in one convenient tube. The sugar crystals are suspended right in the balm formula, so you get exfoliation and hydration in a single mess-free step.
How to use exfoliating lip balms:
Apply like regular lip balm. Swipe the exfoliating balm across your lips just like you would any balm. Don't twist up too much product—a little goes a long way, and twisting up too much might cause it to crumble.
Gently massage into your lips. Use light pressure and work the balm in with circular motions. You'll feel the sugar crystals buffing away dead skin while the oils and butters in the formula moisturize at the same time.

Work it in until absorbed (don't rinse). Here's the key difference: you don't rinse off an exfoliating balm. Keep massaging gently until the product is absorbed into your lips. This typically takes a few minutes. You can wipe it off after a few minutes if you prefer, but we recommend working it in completely to get the full benefit of all the oils and butters in the formula.
Lick off any extra scrubby bits. Unlike traditional scrubs (which you'd never want to eat), our exfoliating balms smell and taste delicious with no artificial scents. If there are any remaining sugar crystals after massaging, you can simply lick them off. The formula is made with natural ingredients that are safe if ingested.
Be patient for progressive results. Your lips are delicate, so scrub gently. Exfoliating balms have a cumulative effect—if your lips are very rough, you'll see them get progressively smoother if you keep using the product over time. Don't expect instant perfection; gentle, regular use (once or twice weekly) builds better results than aggressive scrubbing.
Why Exfoliating Balms Are Different
The biggest advantage of exfoliating lip balms is convenience. There's no mess, no rinsing, and you're moisturizing while you exfoliate. Traditional scrubs require you to be near a sink, rinse everything off, then apply a separate moisturizer. With an exfoliating balm, you can do this anywhere—in the car, at your desk, watching TV.
The mess-free format also means you can pop the tube in your bag and use it whenever your lips feel rough. Just remember to keep the product cool and dry (not for use in the shower or bath). If heat has made it a bit soft, you can pop it in the fridge for 15 minutes to firm it up.
Another benefit is consistency. Each time you use an exfoliating balm, you're getting the same level of exfoliation because the sugar crystals are pre-measured in the formula. With DIY traditional scrubs, you might accidentally make the mixture too gritty or too oily depending on your measurements.
DIY Traditional Scrubs
If you want to try making your own traditional scrub, the simplest version is brown sugar mixed with honey or petroleum jelly. The sugar exfoliates while the honey or jelly moisturizes and helps everything glide smoothly. Mix a small amount (you only need enough for one use), apply to damp lips, scrub gently for 30 seconds, rinse, and follow with balm.
Avoid recipes with lemon juice or spices—they can irritate sensitive lips. Simple is better: stick to sugar plus an oil (olive, coconut) or petroleum jelly for a safe, effective homemade scrub.
Common Mistakes to Avoid (Both Methods)
Don't scrub hard. Whether you're using a traditional scrub or an exfoliating balm, gentle pressure is enough. Your lips aren't like the skin on your elbows—they're delicate and thin. If your lips feel raw, look red, or sting afterward, you're being too rough.
Don't overdo frequency. Once or twice weekly is the maximum for both methods. Daily scrubbing irritates your lips and damages the protective barrier, leading to a cycle where your lips keep peeling no matter what you do.
Don't scrub broken skin. This applies to both methods. If your lips are cracked, bleeding, or have open sores (like cold sores), wait until they heal completely before resuming exfoliation. Applying scrub to broken skin causes further irritation and slows healing.
For exfoliating balms specifically: Don't twist up too much product at once, and keep the tube cool and dry. If at any point irritation occurs with either method, discontinue use immediately.

Quick Comparison: Traditional Scrubs vs. Exfoliating Balms
Traditional Scrubs | Exfoliating Lip Balms |
---|---|
Usually in jars or pots | In convenient twist-up tubes |
Requires water to rinse off | No rinsing needed—work in until absorbed |
Two-step process (scrub, then balm) | Exfoliates and moisturizes in one step |
Can be messy | Mess-free and portable |
Immediate results | Cumulative effect—progressively smoother |
Need to be near a sink | Use anywhere |
Perfect for Lipstick Prep
Both methods smooth your lips and create the ideal base for lipstick or gloss. When you remove dead, flaky skin, lipstick glides on effortlessly for a flawless finish instead of clinging to dry patches. This is especially helpful before wearing matte liquid lipsticks, which show every imperfection.
For best results, exfoliate the night before you plan to wear lipstick. Your lips will be smooth by morning and fully settled after exfoliation. Don't scrub right before applying makeup—your lips might be slightly pink or sensitive immediately after.
After exfoliating with either method, follow up with a tinted balm for a subtle hint of colour, or go bold with your favourite lipstick knowing it will apply perfectly on your smooth base.
Signs You're Over-Exfoliating
Your lips will tell you if you're overdoing it with either method. Constant peeling means you're scrubbing too often or too hard—ironically, over-exfoliation creates a cycle where lips keep flaking. Redness or sensitivity signals irritation; back off for a week or two and focus on gentle moisturizing with a regular balm.
Burning or rawness means stop immediately and let your lips heal completely before trying again. Tightness or dryness (even after moisturizing) indicates you're exfoliating too frequently.
If you feel like you need daily exfoliation to keep flakes away, the real issue is probably inadequate moisturizing, dry air, or lip-licking. Switch to a more protective balm, use a humidifier at night, and break the lip-licking habit.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Do you wash off lip scrub?
It depends on the type. Traditional scrubs need to be rinsed off with water after 30 seconds of massaging. Exfoliating lip balms don't require rinsing—you work them into your lips until absorbed.
Q: How often can you use lip scrub?
Once weekly is sufficient for most people with both methods. Increase to twice weekly only if your lips are extremely flaky, but never scrub more often than that.
Q: What's the difference between a lip scrub and an exfoliating lip balm?
Traditional lip scrubs are usually in jars, require rinsing, and need separate moisturizer afterward. Exfoliating lip balms come in tubes, don't need rinsing, and moisturize while they exfoliate—it's a mess-free, all-in-one solution.
Q: Can you use lip scrub daily?
No, not recommended for either method. Lips have thin, delicate skin without oil glands, making them vulnerable to damage from frequent exfoliation. Stick to once or twice weekly.
Q: How do exfoliating lip balms work?
They contain sugar crystals suspended in a moisturizing balm formula. You apply and massage like regular balm, and the sugar buffs away dead skin while oils and butters hydrate. Work it in until absorbed—no rinsing needed—and you can lick off any extra bits.
Q: Do I need to exfoliate if I don't wear lipstick?
Not necessarily. If your lips don't get flaky and your regular balm absorbs well, skip it. But if you notice rough texture or peeling, gentle weekly exfoliation (either method) helps.

The Bottom Line
Both traditional scrubs and exfoliating lip balms work well when used correctly. Traditional scrubs offer immediate satisfaction but require rinsing and a separate moisturizer. Exfoliating lip balms are mess-free, portable, and moisturize while they exfoliate—perfect for busy lifestyles.
Whichever method you choose, remember the key principles: use gentle pressure, limit to once or twice weekly, never exfoliate broken skin, and be patient for results. Your lips are delicate, so treat them that way. With consistent, gentle care, you'll see progressively smoother lips over time.
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Disclaimer: The information in this post is meant to be helpful, and while we love dorking out about lip balm, it isn't medical advice. Everyone's needs are different, so if you have concerns about allergies, sensitivities, pregnancy, or a medical condition, please check with a healthcare professional before trying new products.